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Powerful Prayer for Making a Choice Among Multiple Suitors.

Are you struggling to choose among multiple suitors? Are you unsure which person is right for you? As Christians, we believe that God has a plan for our lives, including our romantic relationships. Seeking His guidance through prayer can help us discern the right path to take.

In Proverbs 16:9, it is written, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” By trusting in God’s plan and seeking His wisdom, we can make a wise choice that leads to a fulfilling relationship.


In this post, we will explore the reasons why praying for guidance in making a choice among multiple suitors is important, 21 powerful prayer points to say, and how it can help us find the right partner. We will also discuss Bible verses that speak to the importance of seeking God’s will in our relationships.

There are several reasons why one may choose to pray for guidance in making a choice among multiple suitors:

  1. Seeking God’s will: As Christians, we believe that God has a plan for our lives and that He knows what is best for us. By praying for guidance, we are seeking His will for our romantic relationships. “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” – Proverbs 16:9
  2. Avoiding heartache: Choosing the wrong partner can lead to heartache and disappointment. By seeking God’s guidance, we can avoid making a mistake that could have long-lasting consequences. “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” – Jeremiah 17:9
  3. Discerning true intentions: It can be difficult to discern someone’s true intentions when we are caught up in the emotions of a new relationship. By praying for clarity of mind, we can see through any false intentions and make a wise choice. “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.” – Romans 12:9
  4. Trusting in God’s timing: It can be tempting to rush into a relationship in our desire for companionship. However, by waiting on God’s timing and direction, we can trust that His plan is best for us. “But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.” – Isaiah 40:31

21 Prayer Points for Making a Choice Among Multiple Suitors

These prayers will help you guide your hearts and your desires in choosing the perfect will of God for your marital destiny. Pray in faith, and expect to receive an answer by His mercy in the name of Jesus.

  1. Father I thank you for bringing these suitors my way, I thank You because you have made me a good thing that men desire to have. I thank you for making me a responsible person that fit and ready to get married. Genesis 1:32
  2. Prayer of Clarity: Dear God, I ask for clarity to see the heart of each suitor and their true intentions towards me. “For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)
  3. Prayer of Wisdom: Lord, grant me wisdom to discern if each suitor aligns with your will for my life. “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” (James 1:5)
  4. Prayer of Peace: Father, give me peace in my heart concerning each suitor, and let your peace guide my decision-making. “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:7)
  5. Prayer of Surrender: Lord, I surrender my will and desires to you, trusting that you would lead me to the right person. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6)
  6. Prayer of Patience: God, grant me patience to wait on you and not rush into a decision out of fear or desperation. “But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience.” (Romans 8:25)
  7. Prayer of Discernment: Lord, help me discern if each suitor is walking in your ways and has a genuine relationship with you. “For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.” (Matthew 7:14)
  8. Prayer of Confirmation: Father, I ask for confirmation from you on who to choose among the suitors. “In their hearts, humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.” (Proverbs 16:9)
  9. Father separate me from every strange man and woman that are after my glorious marital destiny, deliver me from every marine powers, and spirit husband that does not want me to make the right choice in marriage in the name of Jesus. Ephesians 6:12
  10. Father by your power and mercy destroy every manipulative power of the devil, spirit of confusion and spirit of “I-don’t-know” out of my life, let the eyes of my understanding be opened in the name of Jesus. 1Samuel 18:29
  11. Father help me not to be carried away by the outward appearance, help me to check the inward part, not to put gifts of the Spirit over the fruits of the Spirit and godly character. Open my inner eyes Oh Lord, in in the name of Jesus. Matthew 7:16/17
  12. Father endue me with the spirit of discernment that I might know good from bad, not fall into the hands of deceivers and wolfs in sheep clothing, help me Lord to be in tune with the frequency of your signal to catch what you are saying concerning my marital choice of suitor in the name of Jesus. Romans 12:12
  13. Father open my eyes that I might see and understand your plan and purpose for my marital journey, show me Lord your vision for my marriage and what You would have me do, send me Your word over my marriage that would be a lamb unto my feet in the name of Jesus. Psalms 119:130
  14. Father help me to choose the man/woman that will be suitable and adaptable for me that we might complement each other perfectly. Lord give me my own husband/wife, I will not marry another person’s husband/wife, another person will not marry my own husband/wife in the name of Jesus. Genesis 2:18
  15. Father destroy every generational battle of re-marriage, delayed marriage from my life. I will not enter into the wrong home, I will not miss my steps martially. Power to make the right choice grant it upon me Oh Lord in the name of Jesus. Psalms 119:18
  16. Father by your blood I speak into the morning, afternoon, evening and night season of my marriage and I decree that every storm or battle waiting for me there be destroyed by the fire of the Holy Ghost. I decree peace over my home. Power to succeed in marriage I receive it in the name of Jesus. Isaiah 54:4
  17. Father endue me with the power and fire of the Holy Ghost. My spirit man catch fire. Any power that would want to influence my decision in making the right choice for my marriage be destroyed by the fire of God in the name of Jesus. Acts 19:6
  18. Father I cover my mind, spirit, and body inside the blood of Jesus, I will not be a victim of “if-i-had-known”. The grace not to make costly mistake over my marital choice of suitor Oh Lord grant it upon me in the name of Jesus. Exodus 12:13
  19. Father I decree peace be still over my mind and spirit, let every trouble and disturbance in my mind and spirit receive peace and quietness of God. Anything that would not allow me to hear and see clearly what you are saying and showing me be destroyed in the name of Jesus. Philippians 4:6
  20. Father choose the right man/woman after your heart for me, let it be a person that would also help me in fulfilling your plans and purpose for my life. I don’t want to marry someone that would bring me down in my walk with You Lord and any area of my life in the name of Jesus. Romans 8:14.
  21. Father I speak into the life of my soon-to-be spouse let him be a man that is teachable, fears and loves You genuinely, let him be a man that values family and upholds good values. The character, wisdom, and maturity that is needed to stay and sustain in marriage endue it upon me and my soon-to-be husband in the name of Jesus. Ephesians 5:23

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May these prayer points guide you in seeking divine guidance and clarity as you make a choice among multiple suitors. Remember to trust in God’s perfect timing and plan for your life.

Remember to be expectant of an answer from God, wait upon the Lord, open up your spiritual senses and sensitive so as not to miss your answer. Give thanks unto God also because He has answered. He will reveal to you your husband/wife, and you shall both be gloriously married in Jesus name.

I would also like you to note that knowing who to marry is just the first out of many other steps in having a successful marriage, nevertheless don’t stop praying and keep believing. Amen